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Slowing the Pace

“There is more to life than simply increasing its speed.” – Mahatma Gandhi

Hindu mythology tells a story about how Lord Ganesh won a race without the benefit of speed.  He and his brother Kartikeya agreed to race to see who could go around the world 3 times and come back first.  Kartikeya set out right away flying off swiftly on his trusty peacock, the vehicle he used for getting around the universe.  He was quite sure that his little brother Ganesh didn’t have a chance of beating him.  After all, Ganesh’s vehicle was a small mouse named Mushika.  Ganesh considered the task at hand thoughtfully, and then he got onto Mushika and rode him slowly, with devotion, three times around his parents, Shiva and Parvati.  When his parents asked what he was doing, he replied that they (Shiva and Parvati) were the whole world and so Ganesh didn’t need to go any further in order to circle the world. When Kartikeya returned on his peacock, he couldn’t help but admire his little brother’s ingenuity.

It is a lovely story.  It is a story about many things, including patience, ingenuity, and discovering more than one way to “win” a race. It reminds us that going slowly can create the mental space necessary to actually remember what’s important and then do it; that slowing down is an important bridge to remembering Shiva, which is also our True Nature.

This is so necessary in parenting and spiritual practice – to slow down, to remember, to make your next move from a place of inner awareness.

It’s hard to slow down, though.  There is after all a lot to do, and someone has to do it.  And there is the fear that if we slow down, we might lose something – our edge, the race, our peace of mind. It is truly hard work to pause and delay the drive towards doing.   It is hard to resist the urge to react.  We rush ourselves.  We hurry our children.  We push. We may not even realize we are doing it.  We feel pressure to be on time.  We feel pressure to keep up.  We feel pressure to meet others expectations.  So much pressure.  And, while it is important to be on time and to follow through with commitments to others, it’s rarely as urgent as it feels.   What if we were to resist the pressure?

“Slow motion cures commotion.”  – Paul Reps

What are the rewards to slowing down the pace?  As a mother, just remembering to pause and breathe can turn a stressful moment around, making joy, connection and even cooperation more likely.  Slowing down gives the mental space to think, “what is the next right thing to do?” This can create a nicer flow and richer results than rushing from task to task hurriedly or unconsciously.  Sometimes slowing down actually helps you get to where you need to go “on time,” because relaxed children are more cooperative than stressed, rushed children.  Same goes for adults.

Regular meditation practice can help with learning how and when to slow down.   It gives us a structure and tools to practice slowing down and taking time to check in deeply with ourselves.  In meditation, we become acquainted with our breath and its power to change our mental state. Over time we start to notice our patterns – the ways we rush ourselves or avoid our feelings, or lose our way.  We create more opportunities to respond rather than react.  We develop new patterns of patience, acceptance, attentiveness and surrender.

If you’re longing for the benefits of slowing down long enough to tune in to your own heart and mind, join us at Austin Big Heart Yoga for meditation, hatha yoga, and special parenting events this spring!

Hatha yoga every Thursday at 6:30 p.m.

Meditation for Mothers series begins February 3, 10:45 a.m.

Gayatri Mantra practice Tuesdays at noon

New Tween workshop February 7